There is something exciting (and a little terrifying) about packing up your life and moving to a foreign country. It is a leap of faith, a huge challenge, and an incredible opportunity for personal growth. Whether it is for work, love, family or simply the call of adventure. Living abroad can be one of the most rewarding experiences of your life. While the idea of moving abroad can be daunting, the rewards of experiencing a new culture, language and way of life are truly amazing!
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My Journey of Moving Abroad
My foreign journey started at the age of 19 when I matched with the most amazing family in the Netherlands as an au pair. So shortly after my 20th birthday, I packed my one bag, got on a plane for the first time in my life and flew to a different continent.
Years later I would find myself working on a cruise ship with my home port in Australia. My early to mid-twenties shaped so much of who I am today.. And now, in my mid-thirties, living in the Philippines, I can say my journey abroad has been quite an adventure.
In this post, I’ll share what I have learned (and what I wish I knew) about moving to another country. From emotional ups and downs to practical details no one tells you about.
Moving Abroad: The Emotional Rollercoaster
At first everything feels new and exciting. The food, the language, the daily routines. Even something as simple as buying groceries feels like an adventure. The first few weeks or months in your new country can be a whirlwind. This is called “the honeymoon” phase.
However after a while, you might start experiencing culture shock. This is when the differences become more apparent and suddenly things that once felt charming in the beginning can suddenly feel overwhelming. And can lead to feelings of frustration, confusion or homesickness.
That is normal. Give yourself grace, take time to adjust and remember: It is okay to miss home while building a new one.
Culture Shock: How to cope when living Abroad
- Be patient with yourself: It takes time to adjust
- Embrace the differences: Try new foods, learn some local customs and participate in community events.
- Stay connected: This is really important. Keep in touch with friends and family back home. But try and make an effort to build a new support system and network in your new country.
- Find your new routine: Finding a sense of normality can help you feel more grounded.
- Seek support: Reach out to other expats, local groups, or a therapist if you’re struggling.
The planning Stage: More than just packing bags
Once you have made the decision the real work begins. Moving abroad is not just about the instagrammable moments. Planning an international move involves a lot more than just packing our bags and hopping on a plane. You will need to consider visas, a place to stay, healthcare, banking and plenty more. It can feel overwhelming but breaking it down into smaller, manageable tasks can help.
Here are a few key areas to focus on:
Visas, Immigration and Legal documents
This is the most important step. Research the specific visa requirements for your chosen country and start the application well in advance if required. Before you leave your home country make sure your visa, permits and paperwork are in order. Double check your passports expiration date, most countries require a minimum of 6 months validity to enter. Keep copies both digitally and physically of all important information and documents.
Finances
Notify your bank, set up online access and make sure your card works internationally. You do not want to get stranded with a card that doesn’t work or a bank account that was frozen due to suspicious activity. If you can, bring some cash with you for emergencies. Try to set up a local bank account as soon as possible. Understand the currency exchange rates and create a budget to manage your new living expenses.
Healthcare
Research how the healthcare system works in your new country. Will you need international cover, or are you eligible for local healthcare? Falling ill abroad can be stressful and expensive, so it’s best to be prepared.
Language
Even if most people can speak English as an additional language, learning some basic phrases in the local language will go a long way in helping you adapt and connect with the local people.
Accommodation
Have somewhere to stay from the day you arrive, even if it’s temporary. Decide whether you’ll rent short-term while looking for something permanent, or if you’ll buy a property. Research neighbourhoods carefully before settling in.
The Initial Excitement and Fear
The decision to move abroad often starts with a spark. A dream of faraway land, a new job opportunity, or maybe even love or simply a desire for change. This initial excitement is usually mixed with a healthy amount of fear.
You might find yourself wondering and asking “What if I don’t fit in? What if I get lonely? What if I can’t learn the language?” These feelings are completely normal. Every expat has been there.
Building a New Life Abroad
The fastest way to feel at home in a foreign country is to connect with people. Try local activities, join expat communities. Or simply strike up a conversation at your local coffee shop. Do not be afraid to make mistakes with the language, people usually appreciate the effort.
Also bring little comforts from home, whether it is your favourite tea, a family photo (or a whole bunch) maybe a playlist of songs that you grew up with. These small things can help on tough days.
The Rewards of Life Abroad
Despite the challenges, moving to a foreign country offers incredible rewards. You will gain a new perspective on the world, become more independent and resilient. And you will develop a deeper understanding of yourself.
You will make new friends from diverse backgrounds, possibly learn a new language and create memories that will last a lifetime.
Moving to a foreign country can be equally challenging and rewarding. Some days you will feel like a brave explorer and other days you might question everything. But with time, patience and an open heart, you will find your rhythm and create a new version of “home” abroad.
If you are planning your move, take it step by step. Prepare what you can, embrace the unknown and remember: This chapter of your life will be one you will never forget.
Are you planning to move abroad? Share your questions or experiences in the comments below. I’d love to hear your story!
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